First Dating Messages That Get a GREAT Response: Examples

ARTICLE #7 – These Three Messages Guarantee She’ll Reply: What to Say in First Emails

Sending or accepting your 1st hook up dating email can be a harrowing experience. Your hands can get moist and your heart may pound in anticipation of what she might say. To aid or abet and make your 1st email experience simple to grip and  raise your chances of bantering with the person in a to-and-fro discussion, here are hook up dating tips, you can use.

Send Instant Messages When they are Live Online

You have seen that dashing dame and now you’d like to send her an email. Ensure you check that she’s online. Your feedback rates will always be better if the chic is presently on the Net. Most hook up sites tell you when someone is live on their site. Choose the appropriate time to send your email when she’s on. You have a stronger chance of getting a speedy response.

Special Subject Line

Crappy openers like ‘Hi there’ or ‘Hi Gorgeous’ are clichéd and most likely to get yawned over and forgotten quickly. If you are a dude sending a message to a cool chic, get it into your head, you are not the only one. Her inbox is most likely littered with boring messages like yours unless you do something about it.  Go out-the-box like Pandora with it. Smart lines like, ‘May I ask you something?’ or ‘I think I who your favourite actor is,’ work great. Think beyond your comfort zone be intriguing, coax her into letting you in and reacting to your first email.

Humour Works Magic

Forget about being a stand-up comedian to communicate on a hookup dating site. You just need to be funnily crazy for her to break a grin. Check out her profile and come up with a topic you can latch onto. Make jest of her introduction. If you are not a clown-type person, just Google ‘jokes’ or ‘smart lines for dates’ and see what you come up with.

Keep Simple & Syrupy

Your initial message should be straight and to the point nothing beyond that. Don’t make her feel you have spent a sleepless night preparing your message. Keep it for when you actually see who you like. Try to get her primed for some chit-chat by asking her how she’s doing or send her a laugh or crazy fact you googled up. Don’t lose sleep over crafting the perfect message; there is plenty of time for that if all things work out.

 

 

Get Her Number Add Her on Facebook

The main target with all these hookup tips for the 1st email you send is to get her number or make her add you on Facebook. You need to work towards anything you can use to contact her in a more relaxed or informal atmosphere. This lets you take the chit-chat to the bistro, restaurant and ultimately your bed.

Read these carefully and tweak them to create your peculiar email messages. When you know what to say on a hookup dating site, you increase your feedback and chances of getting some pussy. We tested over 50 different ways to send a first email on a hookup dating site.

Here are the 3 worst emails you can ever send. Never send these type of emails. Even if you have a gun pointed at your head.

1.         ‘I just looked at your profile; you’re hot/ cool/sexy/ attractive.’ You are using the most cliched and crappy combination of words in the adult hookup dating world.

 

2.         ‘What are you looking for on here?’ A lost pendant? A thong? A replica of Kim Kardashian’s butt? No butthead, she’s looking for hookup date, hence the reason why she is on a hookup website.

 

3.         My name is Mark. I am 5 feet 2 inches. I have blue eyes and brown hair. I am a simple-guy who loves to exercise and eat healthy. This type of information is most likely in your profile, so it does not need to be copied and pasted into a message, dumbo. Think of something more interesting to say, for Pete’s sake. Tell her something she doesn’t already know.

 

Here are the three best messages that we sent out. It got a reply from over 90% of the women we sent them to.

# Best Sample 1

I would leave out the online date procedures and invite you for a nightcap. But, you are aware that Net can be an unsafe place to play. I came up with some cautious questions for my protection in case…

  1. What is redder, blood or the Red Sea?  2. Johnny Depp or Brad Pitt? 3. James Bond or Jack Bauer?

 

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This type of message might look funny, but this is the type of killer content your potential date would be looking out for. It sticks out like a sore thumb. Most dudes would send general Hi-i-want-to-meet-you messages. This will prop her up, and she will definitely reply.

# Best Sample 2

A modification from the first, it still got us great results.

Hello Phoebe. Nice photo!

I would prefer to just skid across all the online formalities and take you to see a movie, but you are aware that the Net is filled with sickos and weirdos. So I pose to you a riddle question was used by a famous psychologist to find out if we are nutty or not:

A chic at a party and suddenly she sees a hunk standing alone. She has set her eyes on him before. She feels a sense of instant affection.  She abandons the party without getting to know his name or meeting him. And she does not bother about finding a way to contact him later. Two weeks after her sister is murdered.

Who is the killer and why do you think the murder was committed?

It shows interest. The flattery (‘nice picture’) it’s playful and naughty. The messaging is light-hearted and shows that you are funny in a subtle way. Biting wit is attractive for chics. You have also committed her to a response with your riddle.

# Best Sample 3

I really liked what you said in your profile!

We share a lot of interests, like bowling and Wii video games. It also appears that we have similar music tastes too. Heavy metal is the best! What’s your favourite band? I noticed in your picture that a cute parrot. I have a parrot too, named Osama! He’s 2 years old.

Anyways, I hope to hear back from you because you sound and look really interesting. Have a nice day!

Do your homework. Play smart. Most guys only look at pictures. They don’t read profiles. It actually pays to know something about that chic before you click send. Women are very perceptive and impressionable. They notice these things.

 

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